Subscribe
Close

// Autosize iframe
var funcSizeResponse = function( e ) {

var origin = document.createElement( 'a' );
origin.href = e.origin;

// Verify message origin
if ( 'embeds.go.ione.nyc' !== origin.host )
return;

// Verify message is in a format we expect
if ( 'object' !== typeof e.data || undefined === e.data.msg_type )
return;

switch ( e.data.msg_type ) {
case 'poll_size:response':
var iframe = document.getElementById( e.data._request.frame_id );

if ( iframe && '' === iframe.width )
iframe.width = '100%';
if ( iframe && '' === iframe.height )
iframe.height = parseInt( e.data.height );

return;
default:
return;
}
}

if ( 'function' === typeof window.addEventListener ) {
window.addEventListener( 'message', funcSizeResponse, false );
} else if ( 'function' === typeof window.attachEvent ) {
window.attachEvent( 'onmessage', funcSizeResponse );
}
}
if (document.readyState === 'complete') { func.apply(); /* compat for infinite scroll */ }
else if ( document.addEventListener ) { document.addEventListener( 'DOMContentLoaded', func, false ); }
else if ( document.attachEvent ) { document.attachEvent( 'onreadystatechange', func ); }
} )();

rdunmore13: Do ya ask guys out on dates and if you do, does that mean you’re paying? I’m an equal opportunity kinda guy.

sukii: I don’t ask men on dates but if I did, yes I would pay. I ask guy friends to go out with me and I pick up the tab when that’s the case.

anthonykiyonna: I’ve asked guys out on dates. But that doesn’t mean I’m paying. If I ask him out. We can split.

rdunmore13: Now if someone offers to pay for me, why deny them that pleasure?

sukii: Lmao, where I grew up, it’s important that men show they are serious/interested…or you can very EASILY end up assuming they are. Then you out here in love with a fu** boy lol. So you have to come to me and you have to come correct.

On types of men

Wendy: “I like a bossy guy…I like a man to be a man.” 

id="wpcom-iframe-c7287092cb351feef790e8311fbdaeef-51287776-117076425"
width="480"
height="360"
src="https://embeds.go.ione.nyc/protected-iframe/c7287092cb351feef790e8311fbdaeef-51287776-117076425"
scrolling=""
frameborder="0"
class="giphy-embed"
>

anthonykiyonna: I don’t know what it means anymore for a man to be a man.

sukii: Didn’t her ex boss her around so much she let him have a mistress on the side? I don’t need that energy. If a man being a man means respecting me when I speak as well, then yes be a man.

anthonykiyonna: I think we’re living in a different time and phrases like that don’t apply to today.

sukii: Right.

rdunmore13: Wendy is soooo gender roles. Like this isn’t new for her.

sukii: She is. It’s annoying. She’s annoying. Not a fan.

rdunmore13: She be giving advice on Ask Wendy and I’m like *side eye.*

anthonykiyonna: Lmaooo me too. I’ve literally said to the tv once “girllll. Don’t listen to Wendy.”

rdunmore13: RIGHT. But I also understand there’s women out there that like “traditional men.”

sukii: Being traditional is a thing… but Wendy makes it seem like you’re less of a man if you aren’t bossy or macho and that’s not cool to me.

rdunmore13: Yea, I feel you.

On professional women

Wendy: “There’s so many power girls out here these days…and a lot of them do not know how to keep that attitude of power back at the office. Like a man likes a woman to be a woman, in my opinion. They don’t always have to be reminded that you’re the CEO of whatever, whatever. Except when you have to pull that out every once in a while.”

id="wpcom-iframe-7139f618591a7ad77150be817538f291-51287776-117076425"
width="480"
height="313"
src="https://embeds.go.ione.nyc/protected-iframe/7139f618591a7ad77150be817538f291-51287776-117076425"
scrolling=""
frameborder="0"
class="giphy-embed"
>

sukii: I’m honestly disgusted by that statement. It might as well say “stay in a woman’s place.”

anthonykiyonna: I’m just tired of the idea that women have to adjust who they are just to keep a man. Foh.

sukii: Me too. I think in general, everyone should try to be humble in their relationships. That’s a human thing, not a woman thing. And show out when you want to, sis.

anthonykiyonna: Agreed.

rdunmore13: Wendy thinks women just come in the bedroom and are like “hey boo, just a friendly reminder, I’m a CEO.”

sukii: Right.

anthonykiyonna: And if he can’t handle it, that speaks volumes about him. Not the woman.

sukii: Exactly. Im not looking for a man to boss me around. Im looking for someone who can handle this ambition. Periodt.

anthonykiyonna: And match it.

sukii: Amen.

On uncircumcised peen

Wendy: “You have to be circumcised. And if I start to like you, I just ask right out.”

id="wpcom-iframe-ea696d43a350c13e058260b5a0a0f32e-51287776-117076425"
width="480"
height="238"
src="https://embeds.go.ione.nyc/protected-iframe/ea696d43a350c13e058260b5a0a0f32e-51287776-117076425"
scrolling=""
frameborder="0"
class="giphy-embed"
>

anthonykiyonna: *Coughs uncontrollably* Gotta agree with Wendy there.

sukii: LMAO. As long as your penis is washed properly, Idc.

rdunmore13: Now I ain’t gonna lie, no discrimination against the uncircumcised, but a circumcised pen is a better visual aesthetic.

sukii: Yes it definitely looks nice.

anthonykiyonna: I think sex life is an important part of a relationship. So you should get to decide what you won’t accept.

rdunmore13: But also, Wendy said she asks that question on a first date. That’s too much.

anthonykiyonna: Wayyyy too much lol.

rdunmore13: Like an uncircumcised peen is not a deal breaker miss.

anthonykiyonna: Definitely a deal breaker for me.

sukii: But she’s seasoned…she ain’t trying to waste time.

anthonykiyonna: Very true.

rdunmore13: That’s exactly what she said too. She was like, “I’m 55. I ain’t got time.”

sukii: LMAO…I feel that. If I’m 55 and leaving my husband because he and his longtime mistress are thriving without me, Ima come with a list of requirements and check them off as we go.

rdunmore13: Touche. This does make me wonder do the uncircumcised face a stigma…we’ll find out next time on Ask Wendy.

sukii: Lmaooo.

Stories From Our Partners